Joanna Haydon, JD, LCSW

Therapy for High-Achieving Women in St. Louis, Missouri and Illinois

You’re capable of carrying a lot. That doesn’t mean it isn’t costing you something.

You may appear accomplished and composed while privately feeling anxious, depleted, or disconnected from yourself.

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St. Louis, Missouri ● Telehealth in Missouri & Illinois

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For the Woman Who is Used to Being the Capable One

My practice is centered around women who are accustomed to functioning well—even while struggling internally.

While the circumstances bringing you to therapy may differ, there is often a shared experience underneath: you have learned to manage, anticipate, achieve, and keep moving through experiences that deserve more emotional space than you have been able to give them.

Perhaps you recognize yourself here:

You accomplish a great deal but rarely feel satisfied for long.
You feel guilty when you rest or prioritize yourself.
You minimize your emotional difficulties. Instead, pushing your feelings to the side by working harder.
You overthink decisions, conversations, and other people’s reactions.
You struggle to ask for help because needing someone feels uncomfortable.
You take responsibility for keeping your relationships and family functioning.
You understand your patterns intellectually but still feel unable to change them.

You may already know how to set a boundary, challenge a thought, or practice self-care.

The harder part is understanding why setting a boundary brings up so much guilt. Why slowing down feels unsafe. Why disappointing someone feels unbearable. Or why your accomplishments never create the lasting security you expected them to bring.

Therapy together will offer the opportunity to understand what lies beneath these types of experiences to create meaningful, lasting change.

There is often a deeper story beneath these experiences—one that deserves time, space,
and careful attention.

Specialized Therapy for Women

Therapy for High-Achieving Women

For women navigating anxiety, perfectionism, burnout, chronic stress, demanding careers, and a sense that their worth has become inseparable from what they accomplish.

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Motherhood & Postpartum Therapy

For women navigating postpartum anxiety or depression, working-mother burnout, identity changes, resentment, guilt, and the emotional complexity of becoming and being a mother.

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Relationship Therapy

For women who feel unseen, overly responsible, emotionally disconnected, or caught in relationship patterns they understand but cannot seem to change.

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OCD & Exposure and Response Prevention

OCD can leave you questioning your thoughts, memories, decisions, or sense of safety—even when part of you recognizes that the fear may not be reasonable.
I provide Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP) therapy for women experiencing intrusive thoughts, checking, reassurance seeking, mental reviewing, contamination fears, “just-right” rituals, and perinatal or postpartum OCD.
ERP can help you respond differently to uncertainty and gradually reclaim the parts of your life that OCD has restricted.

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Gestational Surrogacy and Third-Party Reproduction

Gestational surrogacy, egg donation, and embryo donation can bring hope and possibility, along with complex emotional, relational, and ethical questions.
I support intended parents, gestational carriers, and individuals navigating the emotional experience of third-party reproduction, including decision-making, changing relationships, pregnancy, birth, and the transition into parenthood.
Therapy offers a confidential space to process uncertainty, clarify your values, and make room for the many emotions that can arise along the way.

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Infertility and Pregnancy Loss

I offer specialized therapy for women navigating infertility, IVF, pregnancy loss, failed embryo transfers, and pregnancy after infertility.
You can feel grateful and still grieve. You can feel hopeful and still be afraid. Therapy makes room for the entire experience.

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A MOVE TOWARDS DEEPER WORK

MEET YOUR THERAPIST

Hi, I’m Joanna.

Before becoming a psychotherapist, I spent more than a decade working as an attorney.

I understand the culture of high achievement—the pressure to remain capable, think quickly, anticipate problems, and continue performing regardless of what may be happening internally.

My own path eventually led me toward work that made room for the parts of life that cannot be reasoned through or solved by working harder.

Today, I work with women navigating the emotional complexities of careers, relationships, OCD, motherhood, infertility, loss, and family building. I offer a thoughtful, engaged therapeutic relationship in which you do not have to minimize what you are carrying or arrive with everything already figured out.

Clients often come to me because they want more than generic advice or temporary reassurance. They want to better understand themselves, experience their relationships differently, and create change that feels meaningful and lasting.

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